My boyfriends on dating websites
You should NEVER criticize or condemn your husband, anyway; but especially in front of your children. When you ‘hear’ things your subconscious mind takes it in, giving the negative more substance. Our specially trained counselors can explain whatever you need. But by the time anger causes the man to stray he is not amenable to being part of the problem. To accomplish anything in life you need to control the mind.
If you ‘hear’ validations of your frustrations, anger, and condemnations, you will have more obstacles to contend with. This is a problem for many people, and one I take very seriously. I created the SEW technique to help people, and advise its use.
All a spammer has to do is buy those emails or cell phone numbers, and then blanket message them all the same thing. I strongly suggest focusing on a solution to this issue, instead of thinking about what your boyfriend did in the past.
We have helped countless women do so; ones who were told it was impossible by others.
From what I can understand, the two of them share a cell phone, and she's getting text messages from an adult dating site, asking her to join, sign up, or visit.
I'm answering the question with this assumption in mind, although, I'll cover the other possibility at the end of this post.
His straying is a wake up call, or a death knell; that is up to you.
Do nothing positive and proactive and your marriage will keep getting worse; guaranteed.