Dating someone with roommates
I want to be able to have sex and not worry about whose stuff I’m doing it on. I’ve been in relationships in the past where I was the one who lived alone so we were always at my place.Similar to my above concern, I’m really hesitant to date a guy who has a roommate for practical sex reasons. You get back from a late night out and you want to have spontaneous sex on the couch but your plans are halted because you have to think about the fact that you’re gonna do it on his roommate’s couch. Yes, I lived alone, but I lived in an oversized studio that fit all of I’m not a snob—I just know what I want. I know what I have to offer, I’ve calculated my self-worth, and therefore I’m aware of the types of qualities I require in a potential mate.My friends have told me that I’m a total snob for having this dating criterion, but I’m not sorry for it. Plus, it’s not like I’m asking for something that I can’t match. Of course, there’s room to bend the rules here and there, but for now, I’m sticking to my guns on this one.You go back to your place ready for some QT in front of the TV, but are instead greeted by your roommate in their PJs and glasses. [I’ve found] their roommate usually Jokingly, we wrote down when we moved in [together] that when you were having sex, it had to be so quiet no one could hear or so loud everyone could. And with these shared territories come rules, including those for bringing an S. Below, seven people share how they handle having room to hang while having roommates.